We are having a new friend come over on Friday, someone I met locally who is also anti-adoption and who happens to have six year old twins. I'm sure Rylie will have a ball with them. I'm a little nervous, and I want to come up with some more things for them to play outside in case the weather is nice. We usually just go to the pool when we want to be outside, so we don't have a lot in the yard. Thinking of the pool reminds me that I might want to order some treats for Friday.
I'm thinking about ordering some of these gourmet brownies or chocolate chip cookies for dessert. Our friend/pool lifeguard and his wife make them and sell them online. He's brought some of them to the pool for us to try -- the kids loved them and so did I -- as much as I ever love cookies, anyway. He says she also makes soft gingersnaps, and those I think I would really like (maybe a little too much)! I think I'm going to try to order some of Corina's goodies as holiday gifts this year. My grandparents would love them and I think they'd make a great hostess gift for some of Mike's family parties. I never know what to bring -- I can't pick out wine to save myself, and I don't usually have the time or inclination to do homemade things for people I don't know that well.
I really can't believe I'm thinking about Christmas already. This summer flew by. I'm so glad that we're not going on vacation until September so that at least it'll feel as though our summer lasted a little longer. We'll be on a cruise from September 9th until the 15th, then we're going to Maryland for the Motocross des Nations the following weekend. It should be a good month.
The majority of Americans believe that adoption is a positive thing; that children and families benefit from the ability to be adopted or surrender a child for adoption. It's no coincidence that our society thinks this way -- media campaigns that began more than fifty years ago and continue to this day promote adoption without giving any indication that it might not be the perfect solution for anyone. Pregnant women in less than ideal circumstances are encouraged to consider the "unselfish choice" for their infants, and compassionate strangers are urged to adopt "waiting" children from foster care. But for all the pro-adoption rhetoric that abounds in American society, how much do you really know about adoption and its effects on the actual children and families involved?
Unlearning Adoption: A Guide to Family Preservation and Protection explodes the myths surrounding adoption and reveals the disappointing truth -- that adoption is not the benevolent institution most people believe it to be. Using current research and historical evidence against adoption, my book makes a case for family preservation and adoption alternatives. Better still, it offers ways for professionals like social workers, doctors, and lawyers, as well as everyday folk, to protect parents and children from the adoption industry and improve the lives of children who are already in the system. No matter where you currently stand on the issue of adoption, this book will give you some fresh food for thought.
And I guarantee you, I'm not just saying that because I wrote it.
